A new beginning?

I have not been logged into Xanga, and MSN for quite some time. And so basically, I'm a bit out when it comes to the communication in the border-less world - internet except my e-mail of course, for official purposes. Days ago and today, a number of people asked me the basic same question - about my blog, whether do I still going to update it? I do surprised as I have not often to update for more than years but still comments are received from my friends/readers. It has been years long when I stared to write this blog, and I do remembered that I removed my account for twice and started back again. I believe each purposes are different - you as a reader. Some may read just to update themselves on the progress of the person, some just to kill the time, and some just to pay a visit for the sake of 'specialties' of the person.

Christmas has ended, and soon will be the year 2012. Everything is moving on fast, and sometimes we do reflections of the past in order to predict the future. And of course, we must learn the history, or else you will repeat it again. During these periods, I spent most of my free time in traveling from countries to countries. For instance, I visited 5 countries this year, and I think I have learned quite a lot of stuffs in the process. It is not a matter of going for holiday, but it will never be if you with aims and objectives. What are you expected to know and to achieve from the plans? You need to know, or else your travel will serves no purpose.

Since the new year is just the next few days, there are quite a lot of people posting wishes and commenting on it. But actually, do they really mean it after posting their wishes?For eg: I want a BMW 5 Series car in year 2011; but do I really work on it in the year 2011 for such wish or just wanting for it in the daily dreams? Or, is it realistic enough to happen for the year? Please, it is proper to make a realistic wish, and to be a target, rather than just boosting all over around and saying illogical stuffs.

Right, need to wake up early tomorrow for a end of year meeting. Just drop me messages if you're welcoming my next posts. :>

People are judged by their appearance all the time!  Of course people should not be completely judged by their appearance, but they are. That is a fact. They shouldn't be, but they are. So the question really has only one answer. Let's cite an example of this: Suppose you are going to shop for a used car, and you are making a comparison between 2 models. The first car, say the car on the right of the dealer's lot, has been scrubbed and prepped and detailed. It looks like a million bucks, yet it is a few years older than the car on the left of the lot, which hasn't been cleaned since it arrived. How are you going to judge them?

Maybe the car that has been cleaned up has a lot of engine wear, maybe not. But the question is, how do you judge? You judge by taking a test drive, that's how. You're first impression is the car that is cleaned up is the one you like better. It is isn't always easy to "test drive" a person, is it? But people do it all the time in their heads. People like clean, unless they are pigs themselves. But it's not always the correct decision, is it?

That old saying, "Don't judge a book by its cover" is quite true. How do you know what is inside? How do you know how well it's written? When it comes to people, the only clue you have most of the time is how that person keeps themselves. You can't completely judge the person unless you move in with them, and that is impractical. So the appearance becomes all that more important.

If the person who is to be judged doesn't really care what they look like, that in itself offers a clue to their personality. If they don't care about themselves, are they going to care about your agenda? Maybe, maybe not. The odds say not.

If we lived in a perfect world, then people should not be judged by their appearance, but we don't. We live in an imperfect world, where time is of the essence. We live in a world where snap judgements sometimes rule the day. And boy, you'd better be prepared for that, because that is the reality. So if you are the one to be judged, watch out for your appearance. You never know who is going to be judging you next....

I nearly have forgotten that I owned a private blog till someone reminded me just now, till I realised that it’s really quite a long time that I did not log in into here. Anyway, I choose to write is not because of publicity, and I don’t really expect to have readers either because since the first day I created this account, my purpose is just one, which is to express my thoughts.

My lifestyle changed tremendously after January 2009, and now in the year 2010 most of the matters are settled. I think I’m choosing the right pathway. I met some of my old friends, most of them already graduated last few years, and some earlier, and some even got married. Marriage is quite a matter for me, because the topic was brought up to me since last year, because I’m passing my young adult age very soon later. But, I know that I do not have the ability, but I may not know whether I go ahead with it just because for the sake of it? No plans yet, but soon later forcefully will have one.

As someone’s age goes, at the same time mentally will changed. Be very careful if the mentally is changing to backwards, because we need maturity to survive, not childish acts or words.

Not everyone is born perfectly handsome etc. Somehow I treat those people are comparable with trash.

Now, the most important matter is to earn MONEY. How to marry if there’s no money??

2010 Chinese Horoscope for people born in Rabbit years: 1903, 1915, 1927, 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999.

Career: The Sun Star comes into Rabbit people's life to show the light of hope in 2010. But the road of career is not completely smooth. Rabbit people will be busy on the activities related to career in this year. That means there is career opportunity there. It might be required some degree of challenge to handle the pressure. Tiger year implies that your friends, coworkers, siblings or same generation people are always around you to guide you to solve the problems. If you need people's help, then you need good people relationship. If you don't treat people well, then your career opportunity will be ruined by your enemy or yourself. The friendship or business relationship is the key to succeed in 2010 for Rabbit people. If you are female without a job, then the major activity might be something to do with your boy friend, husband or law related issue.

Money: Money luck is good to Rabbit people in 2010. Money is always connected with job and friends. The major income for Rabbit people this year is from stable salary, not from lottery or any windfall. If you own your business, then you need good people relationships to expand your business market. By asking the advice from friends or experts, you can do different investment in different area to create multiple income from different sources. Rabbit people's money luck in the Tiger year is still limited. You cannot win it all. Therefore, you shouldn't be greedy for any risky investment or short term gambling.

Love: This is not a smooth year for men in love relationship. The love competition or misunderstanding will appear in 2010. You should focus on people emotion. You need to spend more time to read people's mind. Do not indulge yourself in luxury, wine and love. To ignore people's feeling will damage your love relationship. If you are a single female, then you have more chance to meet the opposite sex. If you have a boy friend, then you will have a closer relationship. But you still have to avoid unnecessary quarrels.

Health: Tiger brings a sick sign to Rabbit people. Your increase of social activities will make you exhausted. When you feel weak, then you need to take a rest to recover your energy as soon as possible. Try not to visit sick people or attend any funeral. The good news for Rabbit people is there is Sun Star appearing in their life. Any that is uncomfortable shouldn't develop into a big problem. If you have poor health since last year, then your health will have a good improvement in 2010. When you are driving or on the street, you need to focus on your safety to prevent from injury.

Fortune: There is more good signs than bad signs for Rabbit people in 2010. The major event for men is the career. The major issue for women is career or boyfriend or spouse. This is a year to show your intelligence, not your courage only. Rabbit people need to outsmart the Tiger. So Tiger would like to be in their side. If Tiger is smarter than Rabbit, then both career and money pressures come together to them. In general, Rabbit people need to focus on people connection in order to gain better career opportunity, higher financial return and closer love relationship. The health of Rabbit people should be fine in 2010. But they have to pay attention on the health of elders in their families.

2010 Chinese Horoscope for people born in Rat years: 1900, 1912, 1924, 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008.

Career: Rat people don't have any significant career sign in 2010. Some troubles or obstacles might appear to keep your job busy. Don't put your career expectation too high. You need to think twice before leaping for any career opportunity. Your enemy might talk about your bad reputation behind your back. As long as you do things slowly and surely, your career will stabilize. People who appreciate, care, and support you also will appear often between April and October. In general, the career luck will be up and down. You can obtain your return, but you need to work hard.

Money: There is a hidden Money Star inside the Tiger for Rat people. But the Money is required your performance and achievement to get it. We know Tiger will keep Rat people busy. That means the more active you are, the more money you earn. Since the money comes from your hardship, you need to watch your expenses. If you have extra savings, then it's fine for the long term investment. But you need to consider twice or say no if your friends or relatives ask for a short term loan. The money luck is not that good, you don't have to push yourself too much and impact your health.

Love: Rat people don't have Romantic or Love sign appearing in 2010. If you are in love, then relationship development won't be that smooth. You might encounter some obstacles and pressure. It's normal that sometimes you feel a little bit lonely, because of Tiger. If you are a married person and face job pressure often, then you need to control your emotion in your family. Otherwise, it's easy to create an argument at home and impact the family's harmony. If you haven't found your true love yet, then you might have better chance in April or August to meet someone you can talk with.

Health: One Unlucky Star related to health is coming to Rat people's life in year of Tiger. Something unexpected might happen to you and affect your emotion. Plus, the pressure from your job or business, you must watch for your health. You need to learn how to take a break for your work, spend some time for entertainment or join friend's party to relax yourself. Try to avoid any disputes with people, as it will impact your health, especially in May. If you don't have any health issues, then an elder or someone close to you might have poor health in 2010.

Fortune: Rat people will have much lesser pressure than last year. The most important factor has to pay attention is the health. This is because Tiger year will make you busy and you need a good health to handle the pressure. If you like to solve problems, remove the hinder, and challenge troubles, then 2010 will be a good year to you. If you don't like to face trouble, then 2010 is still a fair year to you, because your helper will appear after you cannot find the solution for the trouble.

Traveling, overwork, overtime, moonlighting jobs are good signs for the career. If the job is there, then the money comes into your door. But the stable income doesn't mean a good money luck. You still need to watch your spending and investment. If you are too greedy, it might cause a money loss. You will be busy and will be full of activities in your daily life. Therefore, people can see whatever you speak, act and perform. Your performance can determine your career or reputation. If you don't do your work in a smart way, your image will be damaged too. People born in 1996 will have good performance in school.

http://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/2010/2010Zodiac.htm